So now I think I understand...

[kentiiboii]

My opinion of females:

90% of them are stupid bitches who aren't worth anyone's time in this world, hardly any can even drive a car properly ffs. They mess men about and are generally stupid cuts. Only thing women are good for are sex, food making, house work and a cuddle if you need one. Too many are way to self involved, bitchy and need to take of there rose tinted glasses to see the world for what it is while having a cup of Man The f*ck up.

You've just about described my ex :/ your amazing emma

[Tom]

My opinion of females:

90% of them are stupid bitches who aren't worth anyone's time in this world, hardly any can even drive a car properly ffs. They mess men about and are generally stupid cuts. Only thing women are good for are sex, food making, house work and a cuddle if you need one. Too many are way to self involved, bitchy and need to take of there rose tinted glasses to see the world for what it is while having a cup of Man The f*ck up.

You forgot boobs:/ Women are good for boobies... /thatisall

[MrsMidnight]

Only women who are not flat chested and have a decent set on them

[Tom]

Dead right!

[4WayDiablo]

Women are good for 3 things... cooking cleaning and vagina

Actually they're good for 4 things... cooking cleaning vagina and their sisters vaginas

[KrisB]

Buy her a gift. Or a ring.

I had some customers in the other they knew each other for 2 weeks before they got married. Still together 7 years later.

[JamesG]

My opinion of females:

90% of them are stupid bitches who aren't worth anyone's time in this world, hardly any can even drive a car properly ffs. They mess men about and are generally stupid cuts. Only thing women are good for are sex, food making, house work and a cuddle if you need one. Too many are way to self involved, bitchy and need to take of there rose tinted glasses to see the world for what it is while having a cup of Man The f*ck up.

here here :thumbsup:

[Niall]

You could just get naked in front of her next time you see her?

[THE_Liam]

F*ck me she's actually pretty damn hot! I would

My general advice is that you have to do something, or you'll regret it for years. If your anything like me you won't feel that very often, so you can't really pass up an opportunity. Just go for it!!

Also, friendzone is not the end of it all. I was mates with Gen for years before I left my girlfriend for her. Then again, I wasn't the one who made the move, I think it's different for women...

[kentiiboii]

End of the day women know they control us men they say no it's no. They say yeah we're there like dogs on heat. They say jump we ask how high.
They know it. We know it.

[Jake]

Go for it! Tell her how you feel.

[InkedMuttley]

Well yet again I have been out with her been stargazing at a castle ruins nearby and it was pretty f*cking epic yet she was talking about dating and wasn't really ready to get into it just yet because of the whole breakup thing now at that time I was just about ready to open my mouth and I f*cking froze in fear again. I f*cking hate this!!!

[4WayDiablo]

If she was talking about dating no matter what or how long the previous relationship she is ready for one

Also the fact you were stargazing by a castle at the time would suggest she may think the same as you

And I think that was the good time to say something

[InkedMuttley]

If she was talking about dating no matter what or how long the previous relationship she is ready for one

Also the fact you were stargazing by a castle at the time would suggest she may think the same as you

And I think that was the good time to say something

Have I lost my chance again or is it retrievable...was a pretty epic night, the moon, a full sky of stars on an unlit country road with nothing but the cool breeze and each other for company with a shitload of shooting stars littering the sky for added effect, we both wished. My wish was that she would make a move, never happened. I kinda did get a little bit of courage until we had an unexpected moment she said something and we looked at each other, heads touching I thought to myself "Right this is it, time to shine" but I couldn't summon enough courage to just go in for the kill...I fear I'm fighting a losing battle with my own low self-esteem and should stop even trying...

[samass]

Penis in vaginis.


Also, I personally think its better to have never loved than to have loved and lost, it f*cking sucks!!


In all seriousness mate, you regret the things you dont do more than the things you do do (heh, doodoo )
You'll say something like, "so, you and me hen, how about it?" and it'll go from there.


Or, just get your cock out.

[kentiiboii]

Dude I know it's hard. But sounds to me look a good chance. If your scared just mention that you really like Going with her spending the time with her and see where the conversation goes.

But tbh if I was you in the situation you was... I'd of gone straight in for a kiss. It's a risky deal but were you was and the scene it would of done something. And if not then you may also find out what she does want from the relation ship quickly

[InkedMuttley]

The best thing about it...I have just blogged a whole lot about all my feelings all on a page...Yet I can't publish it.

The reason being I'm nervous in case it posts to Facebook etc and she sees the things I have written, if anybody wants to read that page please comment and I will PM it. Kinda explains a whole heap of stuff but the only thing I can excerpt from it that explains the way I am feeling:

"It all routes right back to the beginning, my shyness, low self esteem and my countless rejections. I really want to tell this girl my feelings, but just cant through fear of losing her completely.

This girl within 2 weeks has become the centre of my world my Magma Core, the whole reason I enjoy going to sleep because I dream of her in all her flawed perfection. She is the Ying to my Yang. The Ben to my Jerry's. She is everything I have ever dreamed of and more in a female, she has the looks, personality, sense of humour. She is perfect and I want her so badly to be an even bigger part of my life, I want to be able to soothe away her troubles, be her shoulder to cry on but most of all I want to be her best friend and lover. I want to be the reason she gets up in the morning as she is mine. Yet I can't tell her because if I do and f*ck it up I lose her friendship too. All at the same time I can't bare not to tell her as so many times I have been friend-zoned.

Come on people pray for me, pray for this to work out and for me to be able to work on my self-esteem and achieve my goal of becoming a part of this wonderful girl's life I want to be able to look back on my last day and say "That moment was the perfect one, the one we all search for yet so many of us never find. Well I have found mine, and throughout my years of failures, countless imperfections and mountains that I have climbed, You are the needle in my haystack."

If anyone wants to read the full essay, all 810 words of it I am happy to share!

[ash240970]

Tell her how you feel - or you can go through life not knowing, then when she meets someone else that has the balls to tell her how they feel about her and she falls head over heels in love, marries them and has their babies - you will look back on your life with regret at the missed opportunity.
Rejection is something that happens to many of us throughout our lives and although it hurts, is something that makes us stronger. If you don't tell her how you feel about her how the hell do you expect her to know? Contrary to popular belief the female of the species are not mind readers even if they tell you they are.

[InkedMuttley]

Tell her how you feel - or you can go through life not knowing, then when she meets someone else that has the balls to tell her how they feel about her and she falls head over heels in love, marries them and has their babies - you will look back on your life with regret at the missed opportunity.
Rejection is something that happens to many of us throughout our lives and although it hurts, is something that makes us stronger. If you don't tell her how you feel about her how the hell do you expect her to know? Contrary to popular belief the female of the species are not mind readers even if they tell you they are.

Dude...You just hit the nail on the head, in all honesty if it all turned around and she found someone I think it'd tear me apart.

[THE_Liam]

If you struggle with confidence and self esteem, you'll have to keep this simple mate. Just pick her up, go for a walk somewhere private and tell her. DON'T go in with the whole "You're the centre of my world, the love of my life, I can't breathe without you" thing, she might like it but also she might shit herself, I know I would! That kind of stuff puts people on the spot.

Maybe just something like "Your more than just a friend to me, and I want to be more than friends. I had to tell you before someone else beat me to it", and then just keep quiet, let her think, don't stare at her waiting for an answer. If she gives you any positive signs, go for a kiss, and make it a f*cking good one, don't try slip her the tongue yet...

By the sounds of it, she thinks of you as more than a friend. I've got lots of female friends, and I don't go f*cking stargazing or on romantic trips with them, that's the kind of stuff I do with my lass

Hate to sound a bit harsh, but grow some man cobbles and do it, that has to be easier than potentially living with regret WHEN she meets someone. I've seen her picture, she will meet someone, she's stunning mate. Like I say, I bloody would!

[InkedMuttley]

It was honestly one of the most exhilirating of experiences I've had to say the least I've watched meteor showers before but it's always been "There goes another" but this time the colours of them, the amount everything seemed amplified it was as I say, the perfect moment.

But the only way I can describe what we both feel as she so quite rightly put it "I know her, without actually knowing her" and she knows me too somehow.

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Another one was last night another moment I ruined, we was talking about past lives (yes I believe in the supernatural and past lives and stuff like that!) and I was once regressed and was told that in my past life I was an Egyptian servant and apparently this is where my depression comes from. According to this person I was in love with my master's wife and obviously it was a forbidden love and this servant was put to death. Now she's into past lives too and mentioned the fact that we both share a really strong connection and does it not occur to me that in the past we were lovers and she's now found her forbidden love and had quite rightfully come to claim him...At which point I think I had the perfect opportunity to just go in for the kill...however at 80mph I think it may of been a tad dangerous.

[Rippthrough]

It's like myspace all over again in here.

[Toms306]

Muttley, honestly, f*ck the self esteem and just say something. I've been in the same position when I was at school, used to talk to this girl quite a lot, she was always there to look after me when bad stuff happened etc etc. And in a dazed state (dont ask!) I told another mate how I felt about her and he said I should tell her.

I thought about, got ready to go to hers one evening.....and I looked in the mirror before going. I said to myself 'i wouldn't wanna be seen with that, she deserves better'. And that was it. Avoided her at school afterwards as well......she still turns up in odd places, I sold her a 306 lol, and I met her again at college.

But the point is, I never asked her, and I have regretted it ever since....and all down to lack of confidence and self esteem! She would have probably said no....but at least I'd have known. I still wonder about if she'd yes, even now, never found anyone the same since.

Don't lose her mate, tell her how you feel, she's obviously well into you as well.

[Jonny b]

Just tell her ffs she probably already knows, if you leave it too long she might end up thinking your not interested and only want to be mates! Tbh that's probably what been happening with all the past girls who are now mates

[Scott]

As Jonny said.

You're thinking about it too much. She's clearly interested, and if your heads were touching that's the perfect opportunity to do it (though that doesn't mean it was the only one, or that you won't get another). Stop thinking about it so much, you know what you want, she's giving you the right signs, and you have all of us confirming it. What are you waiting for

[cwspellowe]

Let me be the first to say... GAY!

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In all seriousness mate she probably already knows what's on your mind. I say do it.

[MrsMidnight]

Tom... You spoke to a female?! Oh my gosh!

[Toms306]

Tom... You spoke to a female?! Oh my gosh!

Yeah I used to....before that incident.

[kentiiboii]

If toms telling you off for low self esteem and to go for it then we must be right.
But dude these things she's talking about to you isn't what friends talk about at all.


Tell her before someone else does. If not someone really should help and put this on his Facebook

[StarBenn]

Not sure if this is helpful but I had a similar problem to yourself.

Skip all the stuff you've written, I told her how much I liked her and well, it still is the best decision I ever made. I too have been hurt and it took an awful amount of effort to force the words from my mouth. Her response was a kiss, an incredible kiss, followed by 'about time I thought you'd never tell me!'

It's at all possible she knows and is waiting for you. I hope for you this works out as well for you as it did for me. The whole thing sounds like I could have written exactly what you have in this thread.

Best of luck!