So now I think I understand...

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Some females thrive on the attention I find. They like to feel wanted, especially after a harsh breakup where they feel anything but. Its always the ones you want that mess you about, and sadly because you want them it's tricky to play it cool. Think you need to give her the cold shoulder mate or it's just like tipping salt into an open wound.

I have worked with a girl for 4 years and each time she was on a downer, she'd lean on me. Each time I asked for her number she either said yes and didn't give it me, or just dodged the question, but whenever i've been away with work and come back she's desperate to come and talk to me. When she split up with her fella, I tried to wait, let her sort herself out, move out and stuff, took her out on a date only for her to tell me ON that date she was getting back with him! WTF?? That evening couldn't end fast enough.

My ex that turned my life upside down and ran off with another bloke 4 years ago still tries to get in touch, yet she slated me for x, y and z when she left - funny how the grass ain't greener on the other side and she realised all the shit I actually did for her! Sorry, i'm quite happy thanks! Not interested in talking to you!