So now I think I understand...

[procta]

Procta - you sure that she's only textin you when she's bored and not when her fella is out? Seen it before and been played a couple of times myself - sorry to put a damper on things but doesn't sound right to me.

i think your right about that tbh, her face book she is set as single, but a lot of people dont up date this, as i dont update mine,

nice one muttley, to see a lads luck change with women! sadly its not going well at all with me, i have been txting a lass for nearly 2 months, met her on a night out when i was out with a mate at work. sad thing is i think she only repies and txts me when shes bord. i have tried to ask her if she wants to meet up, all i get is no reply on that,
she says iam nice, but i have heard that before loads of times!
i think i will tell her no point in keeping the txting game if nothings gonna come out of it.

I don't see it that my luck's changed at all mate, still lonely just have a really beautiful friend with a personality much like my own. I have a female very much like you described we did used to work together then she quit but gave me her number which was awesome. Every now and again she'll send me a text telling me that she really likes me and would love to be with me etc so I send her one back "So why did you say no when I did ask?" then she'll go into great detail about how she's "Still in love with dan" (her old boss!) and that she's waiting for him "to decide whether he actually wants me" and then a month will pass and she's still single but still shagging this bloke. Then she'll send me another message "I really want you right now so f*cking horny!" try to arrange it "Oh I've got plans now"

She still regularly sends me naked pictures of herself saying that she's lost weight again (she's slim anyway) the last one I got from her was "I want you, if you will have me you can have all of this". Thought to myself "Righto, here's my chance to shine" so I send her a text back. "Sorry you had plenty of chances. You didn't take them so for now I'm done"

Still f*cking begging me to take her out, I'm lucky if I get less than 20 text messages a day begging me to go out with her

id have done the same,