So now I think I understand...

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Well just a little update she has just texted me absolutely distraught as she's just found out her ex actually left her for someone else, seriously don't know what to do with her to be honest whether to get in the car and boot it down the A158 again and be the knight in shining armour or whether to call her and make sure she's okay or just leave her well alone for now

Seriously hate seeing her upset though!

I hope you did the right thing and jumped in the car and took a steady drive down to see her and be there for her, be the rock that she so obviously needs right now, even if she throws herself at you cos shes confused, say you have feelings for her but they're too strong to take advantage of her whilst she's in this state.