So now I think I understand...

[InkedMuttley]

You've done well! From a girl's point of view (don't hate me) the fact that she has just so recently split up with her ex means she will need time, regardless of the fact she's said all of that. As much as you want to just get in there and 'seal the deal' so to speak, you'll be in with a far better chance of taking this further if you give her the time to get over her ex. If they were together for a while then it will be hard to let go straight away, and right now she will need a friend more than anything. But, some of the best relationships grow out friendships, instead of rushing straight into things. It's the best way to get to know someone!!

Good luck

Why would I hate you Kimbo? It's good advice she told me that it'd not turn weird at all so that is good enough for me as long as I haven't lost her...I've actually spoken more to her today on the telephone than ever. When we're together we don't stop talking but on the phone it's just a quick "Hiya what you doing? Nothing, Okay you fancy going for a spin, yeh why not" today it's been a really long convo on the phone. (2 hours FTW)

But yeh as I say her ex did start off as her best friend and her rock throughout her breakdown...and then when she got over it it sort of blossomed from there...she's going through another breakdown at the minute so here's my cue!