So now I think I understand...

[InkedMuttley]

Kentii - I have to agree about not getting too pissed - wouldn't want brewers droop to put a damper on things.
Saying that I'd be more inclined to prove to her that you respect her by not doing the deed when she's pissed and if she asks why not say you'd not take advantage of her cos she means more to you than a drunken shag.
Stop the night by all means, heavy petting and a bit of foreplay maybe but don't do the deed when she's drunk.
If she has to get drunk to shag you ask yourself why? still hung up on her ex will be the answer - earn her trust and respect if you want a long term future with her.

Completely agree with all of that to be honest I wouldn't mind going over there but would have trouble getting back in the morning if I was too pissed and between the hours of 7am and 1pm the police in this area breathalize EVERYBODY. So thinking of taking a few non alcoholic beers, heck I've got my confidence around her now anyway.

Mainly going there to be her support I would actually never take advantage of her to be fair I might cease the opportunity when she's drunk to stick my tongue down her throat but that would be it