19-08-2012, 07:58 AM
Muttley, honestly, f*ck the self esteem and just say something. I've been in the same position when I was at school, used to talk to this girl quite a lot, she was always there to look after me when bad stuff happened etc etc. And in a dazed state (dont ask!) I told another mate how I felt about her and he said I should tell her.
I thought about, got ready to go to hers one evening.....and I looked in the mirror before going. I said to myself 'i wouldn't wanna be seen with that, she deserves better'. And that was it. Avoided her at school afterwards as well......she still turns up in odd places, I sold her a 306 lol, and I met her again at college.
But the point is, I never asked her, and I have regretted it ever since....and all down to lack of confidence and self esteem! She would have probably said no....but at least I'd have known. I still wonder about if she'd yes, even now, never found anyone the same since.
Don't lose her mate, tell her how you feel, she's obviously well into you as well.
I thought about, got ready to go to hers one evening.....and I looked in the mirror before going. I said to myself 'i wouldn't wanna be seen with that, she deserves better'. And that was it. Avoided her at school afterwards as well......she still turns up in odd places, I sold her a 306 lol, and I met her again at college.
But the point is, I never asked her, and I have regretted it ever since....and all down to lack of confidence and self esteem! She would have probably said no....but at least I'd have known. I still wonder about if she'd yes, even now, never found anyone the same since.
Don't lose her mate, tell her how you feel, she's obviously well into you as well.