So now I think I understand...

[InkedMuttley]

Being work mates would complicate things a little because it it goes royally tits up then you still have to go to work with her

I'd think that if you say you were going to say something g and she defiantly knew something and still wants to hang out a lot then go in for the kill

Failing that go to a party or something, out to the pub. Have a few drinks and get to the point between tipsy and drunk then go in for a kiss. If she refuses then you have your answer then proceed to apologise then blame it on the drink. If she bites then biiiingo .. quids in :-)

She has invited me to a piss up at her place on Tuesday, even invited me around for dinner we're going to have a cook-off she says she can make a better Spag Bol than me but we'll see but the problem is, she lives 13 miles away so if I do get pissed I can't drive and if I don't get pissed then I lose my bottle! Would help if I had family or a friend that could take me home at the end of the night