Time for a Fresh Start - Updated Page 3, Jan 2013

[kentiiboii]

Yeah nial I've read. But he hasn't really Told them to the extent that he as us! They're not supportive Becuase they don't really know.
I know it feels like people are doing stuff purposely to annoy you. But most people don't realise till you tell them! He can't just instantly decide he's moving out Becuase he has problems with him self which start at home.

It's like a alchi. They have the find the reason why they drink and sort that out first. They can't just run away from the problem and keep drinking.

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Just a thought... Now you've told your nan and she is understanding enough and willing enough to help you... could you not move in with her for a while? surely that would be better? Guessing she's on her own as I remember you saying a lot that you take her places and help out a lot so there would be less people, she would understand things like germs etc and not be near you when you want to cook or be aware of when you'd like to use the bathroom and maybe even give you a set cupboard for your own food / cups / plates etc? then surely if that worked you could start working on your anxiety and what not which in turn would mean you could start to look for a job properly and then finally move out when all is comfortable and well and you haven't caused a vicious circle of upset for yourself. Just a thought, after all, she clearly cares about you as she offered you inheritance money early! but as said before, you dont want to be wasting it...

Great solution there emma . You've already told her she knows your problem. This way you'll help her out as much as she's helping you! Just offer her some board, she may not take it. But as emma said it would benifit you a lot.

Plus with all the cleaning you do at home shed defferntly appreciate it more. As well as enjoy the company.