better handeling, what do i need.

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Maybe try some strut braces too, I fitted my ripp one earlier and it had completely transformed the drive...

Wait until you see the matching uppers
Do make a fair difference to the steering and mid-corner grip though.

Don't worry too much about vibration from the mounts, they'll be fine, your not driving one of those clonky old clattering diesels so there's not as much engine vibration to worry about.

Don't upgrade the front arb unless you do the rear at the same time. Personally, if you're putting it on stiffer, lower springs, I wouldn't bother upgrading the front arb at all (I don't even run one these days)