Job Hunt and Health Issues

[Toms306]

Tom you do seem abit of a smart arse with an answer & reason for saying no to everything so why do you bother asking?

Honestly because everything suggested I've already tried or at least thought about before. I've been dealing with the same problems since school, albeit have got worse in some areas. So I've spent an awful lot of time trying to find solutions. I guess I'm just hoping eventually someone will say something that I'd never even thought about before...but maybe there isn't anything lol...

Im with the job as a graduate meaning I should still be learning and having minor work to do with it being checked over with a variety of different tasks like the other two guys who joked the same time as me have. 
I regards to stress I'm terrible with it, have had to restrain myself from smashing the monitors on several occasions or just breaking down to tears at my desk because I can't take it anymore but I force myself to ccontinue on because others have it worse
In terms of bathroom issues back school I could not use the bathroom even for a piss. So I would stop drinking fluids during the day so I wouldn't have to go eveb during the sunmer. Passed out a few times because of it eventually had to force myselfto adjust 
TheThe first 2 years of dating Alicia I wouldn't go for a shit when she was around , eventually I had to go and it's been getting better since. 
Also with spicy food if I think,see, smell anything with a hunt of spice I break out into a chronic sweat. Still eat it though as I like the taste but need a towel to dry myself off afterwards 

S you're not alone with bathroom issues. Maybe were not as bad but everyone hhas problems tat we work to sort out

I know I'm not alone with some problems (the ones I've stated on here anyway lol) but I don't know why I can't make progress as I get older as you and others clearly do. There must be 'something' I'm missing, I don't know if its a driving force or motivation or what, but there must be something different!

Can you not be gassed to sleep in order to have blood taken?

You've got to force yourself Tom, but the issue you have is that you're the one that can make yourself stop, or give up.

Do you want to sort this once and for all? What would you do if you were physically dragged, held down and forced to have a blood test in order to diagnose/prescribe meds even in liquid form?

No idea but I wouldn't like being gassed either! I've never even tried helium from a balloon... I really don't like being 'contaminated' with anything, that includes noxious gasses or meds or anything. I'd also hate the loss of control with being put out.

There is no 'sorting once and for all', I've various problems and most will be with me for life, hopefully not at the same degree, but I have to accept that there is no magic cure, which I must admit I still can't accept... I know I'll always be limited by myself which is frustrating and disheartening tbh.

No idea what would happen if I was dragged and forced. But being forced into things hasn't worked before, being forced into things that always ended badly is what started a lot of the avoidance several years ago. Some people swim when thrown in at the deepend, I just sink, or uncontrollably panic, shake, shit myself, weep and just generally make a complete fool of myself. You're welcome to give it a go...but I don't fancy cleaning up afterwards.