Am I being out of order?

[devils_fuel]

Niall she should have spoke to you and said about her family holiday and the fact she has to pay but then again she should have had the same convo with her dad....then maybe you and the dad may have chatted about it BUT then again (no offense intended) she she not be a greedy lady and go on both knowing she cannot pay for both....so she knows she is taking someone for a ride!

be really calm (this will freak her out lol) and have a chat, i would ask her questions like the following but more tactfully....

Wheres the fairness that i have work all the hours god sends to pay for OUR complete holiday on my own, i can only afford 1 holiday this year because of it so do you think its fair you and get 2 holidays? - how would you feel if roles were reversed?
what happens if unfortunate things happen and i cannot afford to pay for the whole holiday? i was 100% budgeting on your money to pay towards the holiday?


Me and my partner go halves on the total cost of our hols, so we both pay half for charlie and it stops any arguments about money lol....its worked for everything between us so...apart from me paying to repair the car after shes hit it pmsl