15-01-2015, 06:44 PM
(15-01-2015, 11:24 AM)Mattcheese31 Wrote: Tbh Tom you say it would have massive repercussions but I would say really?? What bigger than addressing your situation? I think not, who cares you get ill, you probably won't just like the rest of us, but if u do you get better, again like anyone else, I feel for you but as always it's tough love with me, one day you're gonna have to give yourself a slap, and the sooner the better, sooner you do sooner you can start living a life worth living, don't waste your time on this earth Tom, you are so lucky, you have a home, clothes, food to eat and possessions, quit with your 1st world problems, be grateful for all you have and crack on son, no time like the present.
(15-01-2015, 12:15 PM)Mattcheese31 Wrote: Yes but harm coming to my children is real, food poisoning is a rare and shitty thing, believe me I know, I've had salmonella, not pleasant at all, also having children I do understand, I have lots of silly unsubstantiated fears to dispel from them all the time, perhaps something you missed growing up, I don't know, I've known you online for about 6 years now and the one constant with you is you always have an excuse, I would try to stop being so clever with your excuses if you can, it's they that are holding you back,
Suppose you get a job that fits in with your problems, that's putting yourself in a dead end situation, surely as much as you want a job to fit you, you should also try and make yourself fit as well, just my 2p mate, I know I probably piss you off, being a parent though you learn to say the right thing, not what's kindest x
This is pure gold tom! i could give you my life story, as i have had a rough ride when i was young. i tell you tom i not the same person i was 10 years ago!