04-08-2014, 10:54 AM
I havnt got a lot of time to read all the messages in this etc but I've worked on bars for 9 years now. I've seen a lot and I care for a lot of the people who drink, often to excess in the pub.
The best advice I can suggest is to not go near the pubs. They're made to be attractive.
It's all well and good people saying for buy beer and I think I browser and saw someone talking about hobbies?? Set yourself reachable, small targets within a hobby. Investing in a bike is always handy. I really feel for you on this matter mate.
Another thing, you REALLY need the support from you friends and family; hearing they're handing you beers seems to me like it's routine and they know you'll drink. Be open with them, tell them how it is, be strong, take the banter when it comes and find an alternative to alcohol. There're a lot alcohol free/alternative drinks. Ginger beer is a good one, you can get them in cans if you're having a doo or shindig at home.
I really wish you the best of luck
The best advice I can suggest is to not go near the pubs. They're made to be attractive.
It's all well and good people saying for buy beer and I think I browser and saw someone talking about hobbies?? Set yourself reachable, small targets within a hobby. Investing in a bike is always handy. I really feel for you on this matter mate.
Another thing, you REALLY need the support from you friends and family; hearing they're handing you beers seems to me like it's routine and they know you'll drink. Be open with them, tell them how it is, be strong, take the banter when it comes and find an alternative to alcohol. There're a lot alcohol free/alternative drinks. Ginger beer is a good one, you can get them in cans if you're having a doo or shindig at home.
I really wish you the best of luck
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