(25-03-2013, 09:11 PM)kentiiboii Wrote: Tom thats my mammas. Buf fact is people that do nothing get everything yst people that work hard get nothing.
I love my job but just isnt enough hours to start a family like we want. I feel like im failing my mrs becuase I cant afford to give her what she wants.
But if I wait a few years ill be on £9-10 a hour and getting £50 bonus a day just for running a store
Well I do agree with you on the first point. I 'work' a hell of a lot harder than most of the people I know, in the amount of things I do and effort I put in, yet I seem to get nothing in return!
Obviously it's your decision and only you can make it, but personally, in your shoes, I'd wait it out, it's a secure job isn't it? You might make the move to somewhere else and then lose out and you'd be kicking yourself that you gave up this one. And don't forget you're still young, personally I'd say too young to tie yourself down with family but each to thier own on that one, but what I mean is a few years isn't really that long, and you should be in a much better posisition by then as well.
Plus if you were failing your missus that badly she wouldn't be with you!! I'm sure she understands that you're not rolling in money, just like the majority of people tbh. I do understand how you feel, as I know I'm letting down myself, my Mum, my Nan, all the tax payers etc by going through school and college and 'wasting' that as I'm stuck with nothing now, I can't do much about it despite trying constantly, yet it's one of my biggest worries of letting other people down. But over the last month or so I've just thought "f*ck it!", worrying about letting other people down doesn't help anything, and tbh they probably aren't as bothered as you think they are!