13-01-2013, 10:53 PM
Well, bit of updateage here.
Phase 1 complete - one of my nans now knows about the main issues. The other has the tact and secret keeping ability of a 5 year old, so she won't be told.
Phase 2 in progress - My mum is having her op on weds....this theoretically means that afterwards she will be at home without the other clingy people here so I can try to explain the situation to her. I've tried writing a letter but i cant do it so gonna bite the bullet and go for it anyway.
Now, after discussing things with my nan she has given me a fairly decent option - this is to receive my inheritance early (she'd like to see it used for good rather than not know what happens with it) and can draw it out for me asap if I choose to take the offer. Now the idea would be that I could use that money to get out of the catch 22 situation, to move into a flat with enough money to keep me going for a few months. Ideally I'd be able to find a job within say a month that pays enough to keep it going.
Anxiety levels would be reduced, which in turn reduce ocd and IBS problems. And I honestly.think in that situation I'd be ok working again. Start small obviously with a part time job somewhere, anywhere really.
Now I know I've gotta take a chance that I am able to do this, what I don't want to happen is that I take the money, get nowhere at all and end up living back at home again. Noone can say whether that will or won't happen.
It's the first time I've been able to see a way out of the situation that I've ended up in though. So what do you reckon? Good idea or not?
Phase 1 complete - one of my nans now knows about the main issues. The other has the tact and secret keeping ability of a 5 year old, so she won't be told.
Phase 2 in progress - My mum is having her op on weds....this theoretically means that afterwards she will be at home without the other clingy people here so I can try to explain the situation to her. I've tried writing a letter but i cant do it so gonna bite the bullet and go for it anyway.
Now, after discussing things with my nan she has given me a fairly decent option - this is to receive my inheritance early (she'd like to see it used for good rather than not know what happens with it) and can draw it out for me asap if I choose to take the offer. Now the idea would be that I could use that money to get out of the catch 22 situation, to move into a flat with enough money to keep me going for a few months. Ideally I'd be able to find a job within say a month that pays enough to keep it going.
Anxiety levels would be reduced, which in turn reduce ocd and IBS problems. And I honestly.think in that situation I'd be ok working again. Start small obviously with a part time job somewhere, anywhere really.
Now I know I've gotta take a chance that I am able to do this, what I don't want to happen is that I take the money, get nowhere at all and end up living back at home again. Noone can say whether that will or won't happen.
It's the first time I've been able to see a way out of the situation that I've ended up in though. So what do you reckon? Good idea or not?