bit of a heart out pour here....I think it helps that I dont really know anyone here....I have been umming and arring about posting about this but feel maybe I need a vent.
Scenario....
'you' have been very happily married to the love of your life, your soul mate the most beautiful and wonderful girl ever, 4 year anniversary has just passed. You couldnt be in a better place, thinks are fun, smooth and easy.
'she' approaches you to tell you that she has been fooling around behind your back with a lad 6 years younger (18).
This lad is the cousin of your best friend, someone who for the past year you have taken under your wing, taught him to drive, helped with his first car, taken him places etc.
You find out she had been sending erotic images, while you were in the next room. Images that even you had never even seen. You thought she was buying expensive lingerie for you...oh no. Sexting late into the night....whilst you are lying next to her.
they had been holding hands with each other on the sofa and feeling each other up...while you are sat next to her...when watching a film in the dark
You also find out they have been fooling around....on the night and morning after of your anniversary. He stayed the night and when I went to sleep they got up and fooled around, and did the same in the morning before I was up.
All this while you are still having a good physical and emotional relationship with her. You have and continue to be 100% loyal.
They had been up to other stuff too, when I was away....away supporting my mum because my dad had just ran off after 28years of marriage with some tart.
what would you do?
I threw up
Scenario....
'you' have been very happily married to the love of your life, your soul mate the most beautiful and wonderful girl ever, 4 year anniversary has just passed. You couldnt be in a better place, thinks are fun, smooth and easy.
'she' approaches you to tell you that she has been fooling around behind your back with a lad 6 years younger (18).
This lad is the cousin of your best friend, someone who for the past year you have taken under your wing, taught him to drive, helped with his first car, taken him places etc.
You find out she had been sending erotic images, while you were in the next room. Images that even you had never even seen. You thought she was buying expensive lingerie for you...oh no. Sexting late into the night....whilst you are lying next to her.
they had been holding hands with each other on the sofa and feeling each other up...while you are sat next to her...when watching a film in the dark
You also find out they have been fooling around....on the night and morning after of your anniversary. He stayed the night and when I went to sleep they got up and fooled around, and did the same in the morning before I was up.
All this while you are still having a good physical and emotional relationship with her. You have and continue to be 100% loyal.
They had been up to other stuff too, when I was away....away supporting my mum because my dad had just ran off after 28years of marriage with some tart.
what would you do?
I threw up
Wishes for more power...