11-12-2012, 02:32 AM
Talk to her about how you feel - she will most probably have more respect for you if you tell her how you feel and be honest with her than if you string her along and then you find yourself getting in too deep and deciding to bail out and leaving her heartbroken.
There will never be a right moment to have this conversation with her but the sooner the better bud and don't look at the ground when you tell her look her in the eyes and she will know you are sincere.
It may hurt her feelings and she'll call you all the bar stewards under the sun for a few wks but her mates will soon tell her actually you did the right thing and shes over reacting or she may be completely cool about it and say at least you've got the bollox to tell me now and its fine cos I'm happy with the way things are.
Whichever way she handles it bud you can walk with your head held high cos you did the right thing.
There will never be a right moment to have this conversation with her but the sooner the better bud and don't look at the ground when you tell her look her in the eyes and she will know you are sincere.
It may hurt her feelings and she'll call you all the bar stewards under the sun for a few wks but her mates will soon tell her actually you did the right thing and shes over reacting or she may be completely cool about it and say at least you've got the bollox to tell me now and its fine cos I'm happy with the way things are.
Whichever way she handles it bud you can walk with your head held high cos you did the right thing.