25-07-2012, 01:23 PM
i have only got 3 true pals, they the ones i have known for over 20 years, two of them we go back a generation.
the sad thing is tho we are all working so getting time off together is hard sadly. as we do have some great crac.
one of them came over on monday night and we had a right old booze up and a takeway.
work mates to me are just work mates, they come and go. i stopped going out with them after the way they went on last time. me and another lad were out ( he twisted me arm to go out) one of the lasses at work had a birtday night out with the lads at work, which both of us know. anyway they saw us in one of the pubs, not one said " andy/ mat we are over here" we both happen to turn around and saw them and decided to join them, as it was a payday night out too. as soon as we both sat down it went quiet. i knew straight away we were not wanted. the lad i was with noticed that too. he said wtf have we done like, there is no need for them to be distant and wanting to talk to us!.
i said him f*ck em and we called it a night, as the town was boring anyway. we wernt the only two to notice the way they were going either, they did the same trick to one of the lads girlfriend who had joined them later on too!
a week later me and one of my old pals were having a few drinks in our local pub. that lot were there too.
i told me pal what happend that night out so we played them at their own game. didnt like it one bit!
since then i havent been on a night out with them since 2009. most have now left anyway.
the sad thing is tho we are all working so getting time off together is hard sadly. as we do have some great crac.
one of them came over on monday night and we had a right old booze up and a takeway.
work mates to me are just work mates, they come and go. i stopped going out with them after the way they went on last time. me and another lad were out ( he twisted me arm to go out) one of the lasses at work had a birtday night out with the lads at work, which both of us know. anyway they saw us in one of the pubs, not one said " andy/ mat we are over here" we both happen to turn around and saw them and decided to join them, as it was a payday night out too. as soon as we both sat down it went quiet. i knew straight away we were not wanted. the lad i was with noticed that too. he said wtf have we done like, there is no need for them to be distant and wanting to talk to us!.
i said him f*ck em and we called it a night, as the town was boring anyway. we wernt the only two to notice the way they were going either, they did the same trick to one of the lads girlfriend who had joined them later on too!
a week later me and one of my old pals were having a few drinks in our local pub. that lot were there too.
i told me pal what happend that night out so we played them at their own game. didnt like it one bit!
since then i havent been on a night out with them since 2009. most have now left anyway.