Am I being out of order?

[ginge191]

thought id chuck my 2p in here..

1 - You've said you would pay for, fullstop... you added IF she couldn't find any spare cash
2 - The spare cash she has got she's going away with her family, thats fair enough...?
3 - You're getting annoyed as she had money, in your mind in put a sigh of relief, then you find out it's going on a family holiday.

I think you should let her crack on, one way or another it will come back - it's only money..

[Connor]

Its all fine saying its "only" money, but in the current climate ANY money is money... be it £10 or £100

[devils_fuel]

thought id chuck my 2p in here..

1 - You've said you would pay for, fullstop... you added IF she couldn't find any spare cash
2 - The spare cash she has got she's going away with her family, thats fair enough...?
3 - You're getting annoyed as she had money, in your mind in put a sigh of relief, then you find out it's going on a family holiday.

I think you should let her crack on, one way or another it will come back - it's only money..

but chatting to Niall about it is the right thing to do ginge before she agreed to the 2nd holiday or niall or whoever will feel like they've been taken for a ride...i know i would feel that way if they hadn't spoken to me first. To me its all about common decency and curtousy - SIMPLES

[ginge191]

completely agree with you two ^^^^ but if you make an offer - you can't go back on it as you feel cheated of the money. If thats the case, you shouldn't make an offer in the first place.

If didn't have much money or was worried about a certain position, i wouldn't say or commit to something if i didn't want to.

maybe thats just me, when it comes to women, im down right blunt..

[Connor]

But the offer was made, if she got any extra money, she would help towards it... She got extra money and didnt help towards it...

[mark_airey]

But the offer was made, if she got any extra money, she would help towards it... She got extra money and didnt help towards it...

^^ this

[ginge191]

But the offer was made, if she got any extra money, she would help towards it... She got extra money and didnt help towards it...

But in her defence, she hasn't got the extra as its going towards her family holiday...

If she had given that 500quid over to Niall, she wouldn't go on her last holiday with her family... Is that fair on her?? When Niall is already paying the bulk.

I am agreeing, but just trying to see it from both sides.

Niall, why don't you explain that perhaps she could slowly pay you back in the near future...

[Eeyore]

thought id chuck my 2p in here..

1 - You've said you would pay for, fullstop... you added IF she couldn't find any spare cash
2 - The spare cash she has got she's going away with her family, thats fair enough...?
3 - You're getting annoyed as she had money, in your mind in put a sigh of relief, then you find out it's going on a family holiday.

I think you should let her crack on, one way or another it will come back - it's only money..

pretty much this. like... she could have gone next year with her family... whats a year? :?

[Grant]

[Connor]

But the offer was made, if she got any extra money, she would help towards it... She got extra money and didnt help towards it...

But in her defence, she hasn't got the extra as its going towards her family holiday...

If she had given that 500quid over to Niall, she wouldn't go on her last holiday with her family... Is that fair on her?? When Niall is already paying the bulk.

I am agreeing, but just trying to see it from both sides.

Niall, why don't you explain that perhaps she could slowly pay you back in the near future...

A holiday with her family isnt a necessity though... its a luxury that she doesn't have to go on. But niall is doing her a massive favour paying for the holiday... least she could do.is help where she can